Heal play grow – With kink and BDSM

I see it over and over again,

The way that sexual fantasy play, especially including elements of BDSM and kink, can be extremely healing and powerful for people.

This is because what happens in our sexuality reflects what has happened in other areas of our lives, and what happens in our sexuality also affects other areas of our lives.

I see people, even very experienced facilitators, feel unable to be seen in their desires, express their needs, and be fully themselves in the world.

And very often, we cite shame as the reason.
Well, that’s a good entry point.
And it’s important to look at what is behind this shame.
For many people, there is fear, repression, violence and aggression.

Some people have experienced continuous abuse that keeps them from fully being seen in the world. Some people come from cultures where they could be killed for their sexual preference.

Fantasy play, and especially kink and BDSM can be an amazing tool for us to experience this aggression or restriction in new ways: ways that we consent to, that are more loving and healthy.

Check out this video, in which I discuss this. I also share a short testimonial from a participant who had this experience in one of my courses.

And if you want to explore it further, this theme will be part of most of my upcoming courses.

For instance:

The Medicine of Sex weekend in London in January
The Medicine of Eros in Costa Rica in March
Conscious Kink in Costa Rica in April
The Medicine of Sex in Spain in June.

You can have a look at the course info below.

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Upcoming Courses

- 2/3 day intensive weekend workshops
- 7-day deep dive courses
- For personal growth or facilitator training
- Available online and in-person worldwide

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