I have a theory that sexuality-based practices may have been the earliest form of trauma therapy we utilised.
35000 years ago…
Some of the world’s oldest drawings (over 35000 years old) found in caves in South Western France show images that may suggest this.
In some of them, we see a shaman lying back with an erection with animals around him, which might suggest he might be taking people on a healing journey with sexuality. (Animals were symbolic of the shamanic journey through altered states).
Around 2300 BC
In the chambers of ancient temples, sacred prostitutes would support warriors and politicians in healing PTSD in times of crisis with an act of lovemaking.
Sacred prostitutes were priestesses who were followers of the goddesses of crops and fertility in their cultures (such as Inanna in Sumeria and Hathor in Egypt or Aphrodite in Greece.)
Significantly, the first recorded writer still known today is Enheduanna, a priestess and follower of the goddess Inanna, whom she would write about at length.
This is why I love doing the work that I do.
I continue to see how embodied practices of energy work and sexuality allow people to heal old and tenacious wounds.
And while these ideas may seem radical, alternative, and untested, they may just be the oldest of all…
I created a short video which shares more about this.
I hope you enjoy it.
I am also including my list of upcoming events below.
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Events & Courses
The Medicine of Sex - Spain
14-20 Jun
A 7-day course - A deep dive exploring the healing power of kink, desires, fantasies & taboo. Nothing is too daring, risky or too taboo for this space: BRING IT ALL. For facilitators or committed participants, this 7-day course will be a deep exploration of our desires, fantasies, kinks, a space to meet our edges A space to transcend the polarity between dark and light and pleasure and pain. It will be an experiential and somatic exploration of our sexual nature and how it can bring resolution to other areas of our lives.
An advanced and intensive 7-day workshop. For facilitators and those previously experienced in Kink and fantasy play. This course is for those who are ready for the next level, to be confronted and to expand beyond their edges and limits. Participants will not only explore their own desires and fantasies, but also those which scare and disgust them. We will learn advanced rope play techniques, we will expand on Dom/sub and switch techniques, This course will also involve practices of shamanic energy development and how to apply these to a kink context to support deep healing. The course will involve the possibility of working with a woman facilitator as a way of expanding our edges.
A 7-day facilitator training for sacred intimates. Teachings in energy work, somatic therapy and sacred sexuality form a deep journey of inner work and self-realisation for current and upcoming facilitators. Teachings revolve around the principles of power, presence and love as tools for supporting transformation and healing for others. Expect an intense week of individual practices, partner practices, mentoring and emotional processing. Learn about trauma for a sexual healing context, learn practices of shamanic development and space holding, receive mentoring and gain practical new tools to share your work with the world, and thrive as a sacred intimate.
An intensive journey based in the ancient Egyptian mystery schools. Our 8-day journey in Cairo will be a somatic and shamanic dive into deep realms of inner exploration. We will explore attunement as a form of death and rebirth in ways that are inspired by ancient Egyptian practices. We will gather in a powerful bedouin style traditional sound dome by the saqqara pyramid complex. The central pillar of our time together will be a 48-hour deep ritual process involving 3 private ceremonies in sacred monuments: Saqqara, the sphinx, and the great pyramid. Save the date - More info will be released soon 12 spaces